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Hello, my name is Efren Urrutia (Life Coach, Vida Real Life Coaching)

I immigrated from Mexico to the United States in 1981 with a burning desire to start anew and seek out better opportunities. Growing up in West Texas, my mother worked tirelessly to set a strong example for me to follow. However, after finishing high school, I found myself lost and uncertain about my direction in life. So I made the brave decision to venture out and explore what the world had to offer beyond the familiar confines of my hometown.

In 1994, I arrived in Nevada, where I chose to start a family as a young man. Over the next 27 years, my life was a rollercoaster of highs and lows, largely influenced by the choices I made along the way. Yet, as they say, "life can be a tough teacher", somehow I always found the strength to get back up, dust myself off, and keep moving forward.

Reflecting on my journey, I realized that my limiting beliefs had always held me back from becoming the best version of myself. But with newfound self awareness and a commitment to breaking down all those self-imposed barriers, I now strive to empower others to achieve their own dreams and unleash their true full potential.

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Limiting Beliefs: How Do They Hinder Our Growth

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When Opportunity Knocks, Will You Be Ready?

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The Art of Letting Go

There is a time and a place when you come to that fork in the road. That ultimate crossing of different paths you are looking to take. The fear is all too real in your mind and you feel the tension percolating through your nervous system. What makes this moment of anxiety so painstakingly at times insurmountable? Why does the logical mind sometimes not align with what the heart wants? What is it that pulls us to and from the correct or incorrect decision. Is the answer as simple as the emotion we know as FEAR? Many clients that I coach come to me for help when they feel stuck and unsure of how to take that next step. Most of the coaching in the beginning is to help them identify those limiting beliefs that are holding them back. There are plenty of self imposed barriers created by those beliefs. They are subconsciously buried in layers of self judgement and self doubt. The main root cau...

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